The Art of Talking in Islam
Talking is one of the most common and powerful ways of communication among human beings. It can convey information, express emotions, persuade others, build relationships and much more. However, talking also comes with responsibilities and etiquettes that should be observed by Muslims who want to follow the teachings of Islam.
One of the main principles of talking in Islam is to speak the truth and avoid lying. Allah says in the Quran:
"O you who have believed, fear Allah and speak words of appropriate justice." (33:70)
Lying is a major sin that can lead to many evils and harms in this world and the hereafter. The Prophet Muhammad (peace be upon him) said:
"The signs of a hypocrite are three: when he speaks, he lies; when he promises, he breaks it; and when he is entrusted, he betrays." (Bukhari and Muslim)
Another important aspect of talking in Islam is to use good and polite words and avoid harsh and abusive language.
Allah says in the Quran:
"And speak to people good words." (2:83)
The Prophet Muhammad (peace be upon him) said:
"The best among you are those who have the best manners and character." (Bukhari)
He also said:
"A believer is not a slanderer, nor a curser, nor an obscene person, nor an abuser." (Tirmidhi)
Moreover, talking in Islam should be beneficial and constructive, not vain and wasteful. Allah says in the Quran:
"And when they hear ill speech, they turn away from it and say: 'For us are our deeds, and for you are your deeds. Peace be upon you; we seek not the ignorant.'" (28:55)
The Prophet Muhammad (peace be upon him) said:
"Whoever believes in Allah and the Last Day, let him speak good or remain silent." (Bukhari and Muslim)
Furthermore, talking in Islam should be respectful and considerate of others' feelings and rights. Allah says in the Quran:
"O you who have believed, let not a people ridicule another people; perhaps they may be better than them; nor let women ridicule other women; perhaps they may be better than them. And do not insult one another and do not call each other by offensive nicknames." (49:11)
The Prophet Muhammad (peace be upon him) said:
"A Muslim is the one from whose tongue and hand the Muslims are safe." (Bukhari and Muslim)
In conclusion, talking in Islam is an art that requires wisdom, sincerity, kindness and moderation. It is a way of pleasing Allah and earning His reward, as well as a means of improving oneself and society. As Muslims, we should strive to master this art and follow the best example of our Prophet Muhammad (peace be upon him), who was described by his wife Aisha (may Allah be pleased with her) as:
"His character was the Quran." (Muslim)